Death can be very cruel. A beautiful little boy from Te Anau, New Zealand, recently passed away from cancer. I donated and helped raise funds for him/his family when his story was first shared. As a parent, I’ve empathised with what his parents must be going through. I followed all the updates about Luka and …
Grief I recently went back to my home country for my dear Grandmother’s funeral. In my culture, the family of the deceased usually walks behind the coffin until the burial site, and that’s what we did. I thought I had processed most of my grief. But, when I was standing with my sons behind my …
My Nana My last living grandparent, my dearest Nana, passed away today. It was not a surprise, as her body’s been in decline for years now. She was one of the most unique people I have ever met. Certainly one of the strongest and bravest. Nana was a little girl during WWII. During the war, …
Overcoming everyday challenges Facing grief or death can help make everyday challenges seem a bit more bearable. It’s not the easiest thing but it helps put things into perspective. For example, with Christmas and the end of the year just around the corner, lots of people will be feeling the heaviness of the year just …
A Sudden Death Yesterday, what seemed to be an ordinary morning was shook with the news that a dear aunt had suddenly passed. We had just seen her a week or so before. My maternal grandmother also left so suddenly, as did a very dear aunt/mother to me. A shock for everyone, and a reminder …
What is All Saints Day? November 1st is All Saints Day, which is a day celebrated in most Catholic countries around the world. Though in some countries, the celebrations can go on for more than a day. For example, in the country I grew up in, All Saints Day was the time everyone would visit …
Suicide prevention month September is Suicide prevention month. While most people are afraid of death, there are also those who feel that death must be attained to achieve freedom from their difficulties and pain. How does facing death help with suicide prevention? Here are some examples: Death through suicide is not a happy or good …
Imagine a world where we talked about and prepared for death just as much as we did for birth. We’d have hundreds and hundreds of books helping people prepare. In-depth descriptions and dialogue helping people prepare for death. Anyone who has given birth or been present during a birth knows it is not easy experience …
Welcome! This blog is my humble effort to help people face death without fear, and find real happiness amidst grief. Death, dying, and grief are all topics most of us don’t even like to think about. But the irony is that, facing death and dying allows us to actually experience deep inner happiness and freedom– …